Start by giving love to others…

TODAY is a great day to think deeply in how we give our love to others.

I believe the word love has many meanings for every person. I believe it’s a very personal experience for everyone and I do not intent to give meaning to it. However, I do intent to talk about healthy love.

Healthy love is the one that doesn’t need attachment.

Remember: Attachment is the root of suffering. It demands and slave the ones we love with the constant need of attention and approval.

I suggest that if you are giving love give it freely, don’t expect to have any return in your love. Don’t feel that you are obliging the other, never, not even for a single moment. Love never obliges.

Serve love through the receiver, so that you never become attached to them. And when one is not attached to them, love reaches its highest peaks. The moment one is attached, one starts falling low. Why do you cling to something? Because you are afraid you will lose it. The moment love becomes attachment, love becomes an obligation. The moment loves become demanding, it is a prison.

Love has to be of the quality that gives you freedom, not new chains for you; a love that gives you wings and supports you to fly as high as possible! Love gives freedom. Love is freedom.

Keep these words in mind next time you are giving love…free yourself and the other and love, love, love freely.

Like this topic? Read this one: Love, freedom and aloneness…

Have a lovely day!

PS: Don’t forget to love yourself first, so you can give the BEST love to others.

xoxo,
Cristina