I believe people don’t just get lucky, people work hard to get what they want (whatever that is). I’m going to give you my advice on how to work on what you want.
Feeling bored?
- Call your friends and go out!
- Read a book and travel in your mind.
- Walk, run, swim – get active!
- Go to the movies. Get out of your house.
- Plan something! Get busy.
Want a new job?
- Fix your resume and cover letter.
- Get aggressive and spread the word that you are looking for a new job.
- Send your resume to all the companies you like. Sending 1 or 2 resumes a week is not enough.
- Call and send thank you emails after the interview.
- Find your passion.
- Take classes and pay attention to what makes you happy.
- When you work in something you are passionate about, you won’t feel like working.
Feeling not attractive?
- Go to the gym.
- Change the style of your hair.
- Buy new clothes.
- Ask for advice.
- Go out and flirt.
- Eat healthy.
- And if the feeling persist, I suggest you seek professional help.
Your relationship is not perfect?
- Talk to your significant other on how you feel. Build a strong communication.
- Do something different with him/her. Go in adventure together.
- Make an effort. When couples stop doing the important things that made each other fall in love, boredom comes.
- Pick your fights. Example, don’t fight for who did or didn’t do the dishes.
- Give the other space. Being 24/7 together will not help. Don’t surround your life around your partner.
- Have fun! Don’t put pressure on stupid things.
- And…. No relationship is perfect!
Your life sucks?
- Stop complaining and do something about it.
- Surround yourself with positive people.
- Stop judging and wishing your life was like others.
- Read motivational books.
- Find passion in something. Get a hobby.
- Spend time with loved ones.
- Maybe is time for vacation? Travel!!!!
In life we have choices and we DO choose the life we want to live. I’m usually a spontaneous person and I do fun things just to spice up my life a little. I know we have responsibilities, but we also have the free will to do and make our life more interesting. Let’s stop complaining and do something about it ! (and yes, I included myself) 🙂
Hope you have a nice weekend!
xoxo,
Cristina
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Brilliant – love the motivational penguin and you will NEVER know how much I needed this post – which happened to be at the top of my reader when I logged into my blog to post ‘In Pursuit of Dreams’ … I have had a tough day and reading this reminded me that since January 1st I have taken back control of my life and this tiredness comes as a result of all the passion and work I am putting in everyday! It is my body’s way of knocking my mind out for a while! (Sleep)
Out of your wonderful lists I see so much that I have taken on board this year and the fundamental changes it has made to me.
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◾Read a book and travel in your mind.
◾Go to the movies. Get out of your house.
◾Plan something! Get busy.
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◾Fix your resume and cover letter.
◾Send your resume to all the companies you like.
◾Call and send thank you emails after the interview.
◾Find your passion.
◾Take classes and look what makes you happy.
◾When you work in something you are passionate about, you won’t feel like working.
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◾Change the style of your hair.
◾Buy new clothes.
◾Ask for advice.
◾seek professional help.
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◾Stop complaining and do something about it.
◾Surround yourself with positive people.
◾Stop judging and wishing your life was like others.
◾Read motivational books.
◾Find passion in something. Get a hobby.
◾Spend time with loves ones.
◾Maybe is time for vacation? Travel!!!!
It was mainly my life sucking!
POSITIVE = POSITIVE!
Let’s hear it for the motivational penguin may his message shine on for us all!
And thanks for sharing this wisdom.
Author
Aww that’s so cute! Thank you. Sometimes I need to motivate myself and writing helps a lot. Glad you like it! Fell free to come to my blog anytime 🙂 Have a good day!
I love how it’s so straight forward and applicable. Cute penguin by the way!
Author
Thank you! 🙂