Nowadays, we can easily fall into sex monotony due to either being tired, stressed or simply sometimes one can feel a bit bashful of trying something new.
There’s nothing more exciting and thrilling than doing new things in a different setting. Spicing things up will definitely boost your energy, confidence and will “switch on” that adventurous side of you.
“To be human is to be sexual.” Osho
Looking for new ideas on how to spice up your sex life? I will give you the best ideas I can share with it not being vulgar for this blog lol. Try this:
1. Pick a car, drive for more than 30 minutes and pick an awesome place away from everybody. Do it there!
2. Go to the beach with the sunset in the background. This is powerful, romantic and very adventurous. Feeling adventurous? Do it on the water or let the waves hit you while you do it on the sand.
3. Book a plane ticket to a random location. The thrill of being in a place you never been gets you more excited, mark this territory.
4. Go on a weekend getaway and do it all weekend. Yes, you can explore your surroundings, but have sex at least 3 times a day that weekend. Not only you will feel like you went to a long trip, but you will feel rejuvenated after it. Also it has been scientifically proved that sex helps burn calories. 🙂
5. Visit someone in another country or city. The thrill of knowing that this person is not in your zip code makes it more exciting.
6. “Hi nice to meet you”. Play strangers. Pick a random location and play strangers, flirt with each other. Relieve the moment you meet each all over again.
7. Go to a famous place you haven’t been and do it there. Example: Overlooking New York City skyline while you do it.
8. Pick an alley and do it there. Going to a random a nice alley while people pass you by, from afar, will definitely put you in suspense. Enjoy!
9. Do something extreme and do it after. Go sky diving, rock climbing, running or other activity that will boost your adrenaline. After the thrill, you will feel so excited that you will have so much energy…why not use it for your benefit? Have sex!
10. Go on a boat and do it with the water rhythm. There’s nothing more cooler than being on the middle of the sea. The minute you step at the boat with your partner, you will get excited of trying this new setting.
11. Go dancing in a party you guys don’t know anyone. Since all you got is each other, dance like you’re having sex. Don’t tell me what happen after you get home.
12. Get wasted. Yes, maybe a lot of people have done that, but going for drinks alone with your partner is a fun time and some couples don’t do it anymore. Maybe, you will try new sex positions since your inhibitions are all out.
13. Can’t travel right now? “Sometimes we can’t afford to go away to experience a new sexual experience. So, why not vamp up your apt? Surprise your significant other by doing something special. Start by sending your partner flirty text messages without giving too much information. Prepare dinner and set up a romantic table setting (if the kitchen isn’t really your close friend, then order takeout but at least place the food on real plates). Place candles everywhere, scented air plugs and make sure you play music that is slow and sensual. Make sure that day you get the “sexified treatment” (mani/pedi, waxed, hair, etc.) These little things will definitely boost your confidence. Put on some sexy lingerie and when your partner arrives surprise him/her with this very cozy sensual dinner setting. Feed each other, talk about your day and how lucky you are to have each other. What’s for dessert? Hmm let him/her tell you want they would like after dinner.” – Nice idea from a good friend!
Sex is the only energy that gives you hints that there is something that you cannot control.” Osho
I hope you guys have fun in a safely way. 🙂
Got other ideas? Please feel free to share them!
xoxo,
Cristina
