9 signs you are not in a serious relationship…

Do you have experience with non-serious relationships who faked being serious for a while? Do you feel stuck in a “relationship” with someone and you get the feeling of “this is not what I want in a relationship”? If the answer is yes, I may have the solution for you, please read below.

I might not be an expert of having serious relationships, but I sure know when I’m not in one. I know people who get stuck on this type of non-relationship and they expect that one day the other will want a serious relationship with them.

If you feel the other person doesn’t want to move forward in the relationship maybe is because they are not into you, and they only feel physically attracted to you. Sometimes this is difficult to realize, specially when you feel like you’re falling in love. That’s why I did a list of particular signs that screams “I don’t want anything serious with you!!”.

9 signs you are NOT in a serious relationship:

1. He or she says expressly : “I’m not looking for anything serious right now”. You should run! Don’t expect this would change, usually it doesn’t.

2. She or him text or call late, usually after 11 p.m. just to “hang out”. Don’t be a booty call.

3. You usually start 85% of the things you do together. You have more interest to see the other person and should be equal.

4. You don’t go together to any place. No dates.

5. They never introduce you to their friends or family.

6. They find reason to blow you off – you are not their priority.

7. He or she usually text you when they are drunk – they don’t even care about what you think of them.

8. They talk about their ex’s all the time. Another bad sign! Runnn!

9. And they don’t show any interest in getting to know you.

The reality is, when someone is into you and care for you, they show it. They want to see you almost all the time, they call you often instead of texting, they invite you to dates, they introduce you to their love ones. How can you fall in love with someone who doesn’t do this? Don’t waste your time with someone who doesn’t give you the respect and the relationship you deserve. Move on if isn’t right for you.

I believe everybody is valuable to have a nice and healthy relationship. It’s OK if you don’t find it right away, but at least you are not settling for less than you deserve.

Hope this work!

xoxo,

Cristina

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