I don’t know why you decided I have a clue on this topic? haha (joking)
All I know is this: if we want something really bad, we should work really hard to get it. But first we have to ask ourselves, what do we want? Yesterday I was thinking there are things I want, but when I get them and it’s not the idea I had on my mind, so immediately I don’t want them. For example, I want that puppy.. I get the puppy… I don’t want the puppy = too much work. People get infatuated by the idea of something, but in real life maybe its not for them.
We have to ask ourselves, what do we want in our lives? Do we want the fancy house? Do we want to follow the trends? Do we really have to like that band? Do we really want to date that person?
As for me, the only way to get to point A to Z is by trying everything. I will not limit myself of the idea of something or by thinking that because it work for some people will work for me… naah, everyone is different.
So, how we get the jump-start from point A to point Z?
1. Listen to others – Another way of finding out what you want its by listening to good advice. This past weekend a friend told me this : “Cogelo todo con calma“… which means Take it easy. Yep, that’s it and I loved it.
2. Meet different types of people – you will never see me hanging out with the same crowd. All my friends are very different from each other. I learned a lot from this… try it!
3. Try to make new connections – you never know where this might lead.
4. Dress depending on how you feel – Stop following the trends, find your own trend, be you, be you own stylist. Dress how you feel.
5. Date different type of people – If you are single date different types of people. This is how you know eventually what you want… surprise, surprise. If you are in a relationship, play the nurse and the doctor haha.
6. Try different jobs – If you don’t know what career path you want I recommend to make a change and try something you feel more passionate about.
7. Move – Yes! The best thing I’ve done was moving from my comfort zone and living away from home. I learned a lot about myself, I met awesome people, I have experience new things and I’m stronger than ever. If you want a change, seek it! Stop bring afraid.
8. Read books – Reading and learning from other points of views will help you expand your mind to other things and see life different.
9. Listen to every type of music – the lyrics, the sounds and the awesomeness of hearing different things will help you reach new horizons. You will become music freak like me and who knows maybe that concert you weren’t that excited about, you will meet someone especial.
10. Let it go – let the fears go, let your mind go, do what you want and you will be more close to getting to point Z. Let me quote, “When you truly don’t care what the fuck anyone thinks of you, you have reached a dangerously awesome level of freedom..!!”
Disclaimer: This will take time. People don’t figure what they want so quickly. I recommend listening to your intuition and if you feel comfortable with something do it, if not, it’s not for you. Be patient and learn to be pleasantly surprise.
Thanks for reading!
xoxo,
Cristina
Comments
You have a smart friend 😉